“I’m too busy.”
“Sorry, I’m in a hurry.”
“I don’t have time right now.”
Sound familiar? In today’s 24/7, fast-paced world, it’s easy to always be on the go. Once you check one task off your list, it’s on to the next task. Rinse and repeat.
While Western culture typically celebrates being busy, I believe it’s important to look at our situation, question how we got here and ultimately, adopt a different perspective.
We all know 2023 has become the year of all years regarding how BUSY we are. (Then again, don’t we say this every year?) Take a step back and look around. It could be in the workplace or when you’re out and about shopping, socialising or doing anything else. We are all always in a hurry. By why? And for what purpose? The way we are all going, the only thing most of us are heading towards is burnout, illness or worse (for some reason, my mind always goes to a heart attack – having been here!).
So, you know you’re way too busy and constantly overscheduled, which is taking a toll on your mental, emotional and physical health. From here, ask yourself this important question:
What are you going to do about it?
Some considerations (and this is not a finger-pointing exercise, by the way):
Most of us are ‘yes’ people, and I understand why. Being a ‘yes’ person minimises conflict and often momentarily makes us feel good about ourselves. The next time you say ‘yes’ to anything that could be a ‘no’ or even a ‘maybe,’ understand you are enabling the hurry. Similarly, when you live life attached to your emails or phone, you are enabling the hurry! After all, most of us are doing our day jobs at night, right? Especially if you attend meetings all day with little time to do other work.
Change can be uncomfortable, but if nothing changes, nothing changes. For our lives to be sustainable moving forward, we have to get comfortable with several things, including:
It may take a little while to get used to these changes, but trust me, everything will work out. Modelling behaviour that prioritises self-care is a critical leadership quality. Sometimes, the secret to speeding up is slowing down. As we slow down and take our foot off the accelerator, we’re resetting, reimagining and contemplating the ‘what ifs?’ You can only go so far by constantly doing, doing and more doing.
Over to you. Have you made a deliberate decision to slow down, and what were the consequences? I’d love to hear your experiences.
Deborah Wilson is a Thought Leader and a Career Strategist. She takes a personalised approach to strategic career coaching and career transitions, mentoring and leadership development. Deborah provides expert guidance for individuals while supporting organisations through change and connecting people and purpose. Call Deborah on +61 403 779 746. www.ontalent.com.au
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